Thank you for the great explanation.
I hope that things will be more even in the future
Nx and LR use entirely different raw conversion engines. Their settings are not interchangeable. It is the same way with any raw converter you use. Whatever you do in one, will not be shown in another.
The reason you initially see your NX adjustments in LR is that LR uses the embedded jpeg for a preview until it can render it's own.
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