I only now saw all these "

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I was traveling in Japan and he knew I would not return to USA until Dec 3 and be in my office on 4th. I then needed to inspect returned items and then transfer funds to PayPal to process refund.
so much impatience! (and, of course, no one on forum knew i waited almost 3 weeks for him to send me money in the first place!!)