Thanks for the clarification, Jeff. I don't know how you keep all that in your head.
I've got a big head...
With regards to the Bridge caching, don't know. That's different than the Camera Raw cache (yeah, more complexity). You might want to check whether or not you've got your Bridge preferences set to for Cache. I've got my cache size set to about 100,000 items. I don't see a lot of cache building except for folders Bridge has never visited...
I use LR and ACR pretty much interchangeably (but always resort to LR for image searches). That get's complicated cause you constantly have to remember to update the metadata settings in LR :~(