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picked a 50mm lens where I'd normally use an 85mm but it wasn'tthe same
Well, from a perspective standpoint, the 50 x 1.6 is pretty close to the 85, no?
You were likely experiencing the greater depth of field the 50 provides over the 85 for the same given aperture.
Obviously, if you had that cache of film cameras you are accomplished enough to know all of this.
Do you suppose the different tactile feel of the 50mm lens in the palm of your hand was an issue?
I'm not sure many folks go to full-frame digital unless their work and output demanded it (and budget affords it). Try getting used to it unless you have $8000 to avoid it.